Failure or NOT!?

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 ðŸ—£ I have failed!!


🗣 That's right, I HAVE FAILED, many times and on too many levels to even number.

Phew! That felt good. I got it out, and now you know. I am a person who has failed.

But does that make me a failure?

🎯 The most honest answer to that question is – YES, I am a failure... and NO I am not a failure.

How can it be both? That seems strange.

Failing over and over again does make me a failure, but it does not make me an absolute failure.

When one fails, one is failure. They just are.

However, this need not become a lifelong identity.

Let me explain.

When you fail, you are a failure, because you failed.

But you are only a failure for a moment in time.

It does not need to become your lot in life. You do not need to tattoo it on your forehead or claim it as your title.

It is where you are for now, and absolutely NOT where you must stay.

You can get up and go on to rebuild your life. Then you are no longer a failure.

🔃 You can choose to reshape your life and refine your course, or choose a new direction altogether.

🔀 That is why I can say it is true, I am both a failure and not a failure.

#behuman #failure #failforward #success #personalgrowth



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